Sunday, December 20, 2009

I'm moving

They say, all good things must come to an end.....but that's just not true! So with that in mind, I don't know why I'm doing it, but I am. I've decided to rename my blog AND move it to a different hosting service. (If you're really impatient, you can skip all the blah, blah, blah commentary that's to follow and go straight to the new blog HERE.)

The past couple of years I've really had a fun time posting at Based On A True Story. I've told some stories, I've cooked a bit, I've even attempted to take some photographs, but the overall theme of this blog just doesn't interest me anymore. I've grown, matured, and even changed my hair a few times along the way; and having a blog that's called Based On A True Story really gives people the wrong impression of who I am and what I'm all about.

So I'm moving. I'm changing the venue, the look, the feel, and moreover the content. I'm hoping to create specific pages for the content - cooking, farming, gardening, photography, etc. It'll take me quite a while to create the content, but I'm going to work on it. For those of you who are die hard BOATS fans (thanks, Dad!) you'll be relieved to know that I've imported all the posts from this site into the new one, mostly so there would be something there for those stragglers who happen to find their way onto the BLOG. They won't stay long, I'm sure, but at least they'll have a lasting impression when they leave!

I hope those of you who do read me regularly will join me at my new address (<-----click to be redirected, and make sure to bookmark the page once you're there) and follow along. I'll go ahead and leave this site up for a few weeks to ensure everyone gets the word on where I'll be going forward. And for those of you who don't like to click through to links, here's my new blog address:


I hope y'all have a brilliant Christmas and a very blessed New Year. Its been fun.

Friday, December 18, 2009

East of Eden Farms blog

I read a quote from a national produce grower out in California a few weeks back in a book on how easy it is to obtain the maximum nutrition from your garden. The grower said, "I don't care what's on it, or what's in it, or what it tastes like, so long as it's in the right shape and the right number will pack into a box and the box will pass the inspector." I found this quote quite disturbing, especially in light of how many chemicals are used to produce bigger, better, and more aesthetically pleasing produce, while consistently sacrificing flavor and nutrition.

"Then God planted a garden east of Eden..." Genesis 2:8

For those of you who've asked for more information on what East of Eden Farms is all about, we now have a BLOG that we will be using as we journal our way though our various endeavors to create our own edible suburb. Today was our first post on the site and it gives a very brief explanation of what we hope to accomplish with East of Eden Farms. We have a lot of work to do and so much information we want to pass on to y'all.

The BLOG, and moreover the farm, is a culmination of several things - the desire to eat better by reducing our consumption of chemicals, preservatives, and growth hormones; the need to provide even just a small portion of our own fruits and vegetables which will help us to achieve a level of self-sufficiency and a freedom in our budget; and the yearning to break free from the ball-and-chain of convenience shopping, which is a multi-billion dollar industry for big-Agra and big-Government.

As you'll soon discover from the BLOG, part of our farm philosophy is to create an edible suburb in our own back yard. We know that not everyone can (or will) run out and buy 10, 20, 50, or 100+ acres of land and create their own self-sufficient compound. We can't - its just not realistic. Our jobs are here. Our life is where we are right now. We live in town. We have a Home Owners Association (HOA) to contend with. There are lots of restrictions that we have to work within (not just HOA imposed but also city and county imposed). But we still believe that even on our little half acre of earth we can be as self-sufficient as possible if we're creative and willing to put a little bit of sweat-equity into it.

The journey will be fun. The blog posts will likely flow in spurts as we don't always have time to garden and post on the same day, but don't give up on us. I can imagine that there will be some wild twists and turns in the plan, but we look forward to sharing our story with you and hopefully inspiring you to get out there and do something good for yourself and your family! Lets all eat smarter.

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Au Natural? A recipe of a different sort...

For the last couple of years Sam and I have been working on ways to become more self-sufficient. We're growing the majority of our own fruits and vegetables in our garden. We are looking into ways in which we can do meat rabbits (even in our HOA). We are interested in buying farm land so we can have some poultry and a couple of cows. And we'd even like to raise some of our own grains (both for animal and human consumption). We're investigating ways in which to utilize compost effectively, as well as solar and wind power. We want to be able to do it all ourselves, or at least as much as possible.

When we bounce ideas off of our friends and family, we try not to sound conspiracy theorist or alarmist, but our goal, at some point, is to become as self-sufficient as we possibly can, and we truly believe that most Americans could thrive if they were doing the same kinds of things. Even just having a small garden each summer with a few plants in it would create a huge improvement in our budgets, the quality of foods we consume, it would give us each some much needed exercise and fresh air, and would lower the demand on big-agra products and force some much needed and long overdue market changes. But I'm really going beyond the scope of this post and could likely dig out the ol' soap box! None of us want me to do that, so I'll spare ya the details. But if you're interested in what we're doing at East of Eden Farms (yes, we've even picked out a farm name!) you just let me know and I'll be delighted to fill you in. Now back to your regularly scheduled programming...

One of the ways in which we're so dependent on convenience shopping (ie. Wal-Mart) is in the area of personal hygiene items. We are a society that enjoys a certain level of decorum...cleanliness...hygiene. No one wants to sit next to Mr. Stinky at work or in church. Body odor, bad breath, dirty clothes, and the like are just not pleasant fragrances to encounter. In all my years I've never seen Eu d' Sweat sold at the Dillard's fragrance counter. Somehow we've failed to latch onto that aroma, and I say thank the Lord!

But what do we do for things like toothpaste, deodorant, soap, and the like? I'm not prepared to buy lye in bulk and start making my own soap (at least not yet anyway), nor am I prepared to stop shaving or wearing deodorant. However, I've really been thinking about ways in which I can take baby steps in this area. What can I do to start weaning myself off the convenience dependence? After a conversation to this regard, Sam was searching the Internet looking for articles on being more self-sufficient and came across THIS article on making your own deodorant. As a joke he sent it to me. Little did he know I'd give it much more consideration than he did.

As I read through the article and some of the other linked articles it contained, I began to wonder if it would really work. I mean, basically we're talking about cornstarch and baking soda; is that really gonna be effective in keeping me dry and fresh? So I let it marinate for a while, and as I thought more about it and all the health risks a person takes when they use commercial deodorants (cancer, Alzheimer's, reduced renal function, DNA damage, respiratory illness, etc.) I decided that my health was more important (since a couple of these illnesses do run in my family) than others delicate sense of smell. Plus, who do I see? I stay home almost every day, and when I am around people its not like I'm working out and sweating a whole lot.

So I made up a small test batch (6 tablespoons cornstarch + 1 tablespoon baking soda) and I bought a pack of 3 cosmetic puffs at the store.

**Sidebar: Do you know
no one sells proper powder puffs anymore? How insane is that???**

So for the past couple of weeks now I've been using this powdery concoction as my 'deodorant'. And ya know what? It works! There isn't any smell to it, but I like to spray on a bit of soft, flowery body spray anyhow so that takes care of the fragrance arena. But I've found that I stay dry and fresh from shower to shower. I have Sam smell my pits at least once a day since I know he'll give me an honest opinion (yes, I know, I'm such a lucky girl to have a guy who'll smell my pits for me! He's pretty lucky too!). So far, so good - no complaints!

I know its just a small step to self-sufficiency, but its a step none the less. I've still got to work out a toothpaste alternative, soap alternative, laundry detergent alternative, and probably a few other things along the way, but for now I feel good knowing that I'm doing something to help protect the environment, to help break my dependence on chemicals and convenience shopping, and something that is far healthier for my body than commercially produced deodorant. Plus it just feels more feminine to pull out my powder puff and powder box each morning and dab some on!

If you're the open-minded sort and willing to consider some more natural alternatives to hygiene, I challenge you to give it a try and see if it doesn't work for you too.

Au Natural Deodorant

1 tablespoon baking soda (bicarbonate of soda)
6 tablespoons of cornstarch
1 - 2 tablespoons scented talcum powder (optional - I don't use this)

1. Place all ingredients in a container with a tight fitting lid. Shake vigorously for about a minute to ensure even distribution.

2. Apply the powder to underarms (or other areas you want to 'freshen' and deodorize - you girls know what I'm talkin' about) in the same manner as you would regular deodorant.

3. Store in a decorative container with a tight fitting lid.

Enjoy a fresh clean feeling all day long.

Friday, December 11, 2009

What am I supposed to do?

I'm in an utter quandary here, and I have been for a while. I've been praying like mad over these questions, but all I get is silence. I've tried to talk them over with my beloved and all I get is pertinaciousness. So I ask you:

Whadda ya do when your dreams for the future change so radically you're at an impasse with the one you love? How do you reconcile when there isn't going to be a way to compromise?

Do you give up your dreams so your beloved won't be unhappy? And if you do that, how do you deal with the death of your own happiness?

Or, do you insist on following your dreams even when you know it could utterly destroy all that you've worked for, sacrificed for, and attained? How do you know a dream is worth that? Is there a dream that is so noble, so grand, so worth while its okay to risk everything to have it?

And what do you do if you do risk it all, lose it all, and then discover that the dream wasn't really worth it, but now you're stuck in your own mud hole...alone? How do you cope?

A very introspective and wise friend recently said, "There is a time in the development of your dreams when hope seems to have turned into a prison." I know that feeling. Some days it even goes beyond being a prison, and becomes an ever tightening noose.

So many questions, and so few satisfactory answers. So I wait................

Tuesday, December 08, 2009

Are you out there God?

Recently on a blog I frequent the question was posed, "What is God doing in your life?" I've read through some of the comments and was both interested and saddened at what people had to say on the subject. Many of the comments reflected a teachable attitude. And then there were others who were completely open and honest and said that they haven't seen God doing anything; even when they're searching, praying, and trusting. And one commenter even went so far as to say that in the past six months they've nearly come to the conclusion that "the God of the Bible isn't real at all." My heart just broke over this one. Their hopelessness was acute.

For many people God isn't real to them. He is just this grand delusion who, if He even exists, sits "somewhere" outside of it all, just watching the chaos and mayhem from a safe distance. Never intervening on our behalf. Never helping. Never changing things. Just letting things happen - both the good and the bad. People are losing their jobs. Their homes. Their families are falling apart. Their world is crashing down around their ankles and they're crying out to God to rescue them...............and nothing happens. Therefore, this must mean that he naturally doesn't exist, right?

And then there are others who seem to always have things going their way. They just got a big raise at work. They just parked a brand new car in their garage. They have a happy home and family. They vacation in Aspen every winter. And nothing bad ever seems to happen to them. It seems like God has "chosen" to show them special favor. When their kids get so much as a runny nose they pray for healing and voila, healing happens. They spout off about how good God has been to them and how blessed they are (and they are), so naturally God must exist, right?

But what's the real answer here? Does God exist? Is He active in our lives? Does He answer our prayers?

These are really hard questions, but ones that are asked every single day. You see, people do get sick and die. Kids do get hurt. People do lose their jobs and homes and sometimes even their families. Life happens, and sometime...no, lots of times, life just plain stinks. And there are millions of people - good people, who cry out to God wanting him to fix things. Desperate for Him to make it all just go away and give them sunshine and rainbows all the time. And God seems to not be listening.....or at least that's our perception, since He's not rushing to our aid and giving us everything we want.

But the truth is, He doesn't work like that. He isn't our personal handyman; someone we can call on when life seems to have clogged up the crapper. We can't just expect him to swoop in and fix it all and then allow us to go on our merry way, living life for ourselves without a second though of Him.

He wants a real relationship with us. He wants us to seek him every single day. He wants us to talk to him every single day. He wants us to spend time with him every single day. He takes us just as we are, but he asks us to commit to Him. To love Him. To trust Him. To live our lives like we really belong to Him. And even when we do that, He doesn't promise to give us a life without trials. He never promised to make us wealthy. Or healthy. Or to give us our every little desire. But what He does promise us is a life of peace - inner peace - and the assurance that He's going to take care of us. A knowing that even when our life seems to be spinning out of control He's still in control. That whole "Jesus take the wheel" kind of peace.


So I ask you, "What is God doing in your life right now?"

Thursday, December 03, 2009

Me and Mr. Santa!

I didn't think it could happen, but I've got a thing goin' on with Mr. Santa (sorry, too much Michael Bubble - don't you just love that guy?!). In all seriousness, Santa (AKA Sam) visited my house last night. And I didn't even have to bribe him with cookies and milk.

One thing you have to know about Mr. Santa (AKA Sam) is that he is very much a traditionalist when it comes to Christmas presents and when you can open them. He loves to give, and he usually picks out some totally awesome presents (well, there was one unfortunate jewelry incident, but we'll talk about that another day). But the maddening thing about him is, he doesn't give any hints, clues, or even let you see the box(es) until a day or two before Christmas. Even then he's a huge stickler about touching them. He is a genuine 'surprise' kinda guy. And what's worse is, he doesn't even believe in opening one present on Christmas Eve! He's a tough man to live with I tell you.

Yesterday was a monumental day in Mr. Santa's life. He totally broke with tradition and gave me my present early. That's right folks...I said EARLY! Woo-hoo!!! He was having a completely spontaneous day - and they don't happen but once every twelve years! We're heading out of town this weekend to look at some farm property in Kentucky and he thought my present would come in pretty handy while we're there. He primed me with the news of our trip yesterday morning and tempted me with the thought of getting my present early. So all day long I obsessed over what my gift could possibly be. I knew how much he spent on it because I asked (its only fair for me to reciprocate at the same level) and I was wracking my brain all day trying to figure out what it was that he would have bought me. Nothing on my "list" was in that price range - it was all either lower or higher, so I was totally at a loss.

After dinner he brought in this huge box and I was even more perplexed. I could tell that he was sweatin' over giving me the present early, so I let it sit on the couch for a while as I continued to clean up our dinner dishes. He was thinking it over pretty good, but finally he called me over and wanted me to go ahead and open it. I was all too happy to oblige him as I hate waiting on presents, and I don't really like surprises. I'm a spill your guts kinda girl when it comes to presents...I'm just sayin'.

I will tell you that what was inside the box totally shocked me! I hadn't expected it at all, and was completely speechless. Which translated to Mr. Santa that I didn't like it. He was so.very.wrong - I LOVE IT! So, ya wanna see what I got???





















Cannon Rebel T1i digital camera with 18-55mm lens






75-300mm telephoto zoom lens






72 mm 2x telephoto lens





50mm wide angle lens




HD macro lens (in black)




2 4GB memory cards





all-in-one memory card reader for faster downloads and better image management




slave flash




camera tripod with quick release mounting bracket




equipment backpack for easy storage and toting

I must have been a very good girl this year! Thank you Mr. Santa - I love you!

Tuesday, December 01, 2009

The hurrier I go, the behinder I get

Lately that's how I could summarize my life. I'm about a month or three behind on my school work, and I don't know if I'll ever get caught up.

I do try to plan out my days. I have a desk calendar on my desk. I sit at my desk every single day and I look at my calendar of things to accomplish. And then, out of the blue, **WHAM** I get distracted, and once I'm distracted my whole stinking day is thrown off. I sometimes wonder if it wouldn't be better for me to wear blinkers like race horses do.

I'm seriously starting to wonder if I've developed adult ADD. These past few weeks have been especially rough. My mind always seems to be roaming in a billion different directions all at the same time and yet when I try to focus on just one thing in specific my brain turns to mush and I'm completely at a loss for what I'm trying to think about. Its becoming highly frustrating.